Transform Your Life When You Embrace Your Inner Selves

  • You

    Personal Growth with Voice Dialogue
  • Relationships

    Voice Dialogue for Relationships
  • Your Children

    Voice Dialogue for Conscious Parenting
  • Your World

    Voice Dialogue for making the world a better place

The work of pioneering psychologists and teachers Drs Hal and Sidra Stone reveals that we have more than one self, that we have many inner selves that make up who we are. Their technique Voice Dialogue allows us to hear our selves speak and to feel their presence, thus making us aware of how our various selves feel, think and affect our life experiences.

Our inner selves may include the Pleaser, the Ambitious Self, the Perfectionist, the Rational Mind, the Carer, the Dreamer, the Responsible Parent, the Adventurer, the Inner Critic, the Rebel, the Magical Child and the Vulnerable Inner Child.

I’m a Voice Dialogue teacher (more about me here) and I’ve created this website to make available to you information, tips and techniques from this remarkable work to help you in your day-to-day life. You’ll find help with relationship problems, parenting (infants to teens), setting boundaries, decision-making, stress management, handling self-criticism, and generally with becoming more self-aware and growing more fully into yourself.

You can learn more about how to transform your life with Voice Dialogue here or start with an article on relationships, parenting, career success, decision-making, self-esteem, creativity, conflict resolution, integrating spirituality with your instinctual nature, balancing doing and beinghonouring masculinity and femininity.

And if you have any questions about how Voice Dialogue can help you to change your life for the better, please feel free to contact me via Facebook or Twitter.

“We consider Astra Niedra to be an outstanding teacher, trainer and facilitator of the Voice Dialogue process and its attendant theoretical structure relating to the Psychology of the Aware Ego… You are fortunate to have her with you in Sydney.”Hal Stone PhD and Sidra Stone PhD, Founders of Voice Dialogue


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Navigating this Website

I’ve categorised articles under these topics: YouYour RelationshipsYour Children and Your World.

You’ll also find a Fast Facts section on key concepts such as What is Voice Dialogue?the Aware Ego ProcessWhat is Awareness?.

Then there’s the Meet Some Selves section which includes interviews with some of the selves and descriptions of other selves.

You can also click on the subject tags at the bottom of this page to view articles that deal with the subject you’re interested in.

And you can check out my books here – if you purchase any, the funds go towards keeping this website running – thank you!

Recent Posts 

Riding Life’s Tidal Waves

“You can’t stop the waves, but you can learn to surf.”Jon Kabat-Zinn

When I was working on my last book, I’d arrive home after dropping the kids at school and head straight to the study, ignoring the mess the children love living in.

During those uninterrupted hours, nothing could have lured me from my computer. I knew my time was limited (it’s amazing how short the school day seems when it’s not you at school!), so that helped me to be disciplined.

But there was also another factor at work: it felt as if I needed to write that book. I really had to do it. I didn’t have any choice.

Being caught up so completely with something in your life and learning to ride that wave is what this post is about. 

Read the full post here

“I know your work will make a huge difference to the lives of many people.”Mrs A Salis

Check Out My Articles Featured In:

Personal Growth and Relationships by Astra Niedra in Tiny Buddha

Personal Growth and Relationships by Astra Niedra in Finer Minds - The Hidden Secret to Lasting Passion in Your Relationship

Rebelle Society Article

Personal Growth with Voice Dialogue in Nurture Natural Parenting Magazine

Personal Growth with Voice Dialogue in Wake-Up-World

Also in WellBeing Magazine, Yen magazine, Voice Dialogue International, Dana

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Dassie Hoffman
1 year 8 months ago

Brava Astra:
Your website is stunning, visually beautiful, and full of ideas and information. I wish you were nearby so we could meet and talk.
Dassie Hoffman

coly vulpiani
1 year 8 months ago

Please add me to your em list for new blog posts….thank you

Zohar Berchik
8 months 13 days ago

I second that. Really wonderful, readable and informative.