The Perfect Relationship – The 10 Essential Steps to Lasting Love

“Terrific!”Family Circle Magazine

“This was really enlightening… An absolutely stellar read!”Amazon Review

“Simple and insightful… empowering advice”WellBeing Magazine


If you’re in a relationship (or have ever been in one) you know it takes commitment, work and good communication to have a good relationship.

But I bet you’ve also felt irritated or frustrated with your partner at times.

You could be communicating clearly but it might seem your partner doesn’t fully understand. Maybe you’ve reached a point where you feel stuck or that something’s missing.

If you’re looking for a way forward in your relationship, if you’d like to know how to solve problems in a way that allows you and your partner to grow and heal past issues, then The Perfect Relationship is for you.

When I first met my husband 28 years ago (married now for 25) I had already been in a couple of serious relationships that didn’t work (luckily for us!). I didn’t want this one to end the same way, and I certainly didn’t want the kind of relationship my parents had (which ended in divorce). So I was determined to find out how to make a relationship last without compromising myself.

We talked about it, researched and did things like Voice Dialogue to help us work through past issues.

I realised that as our relationship progressed, there were times when we could have given up. I also realised that when a problem arose, if we looked at it as a way to grow as individuals and as partners together, then our relationship got better.

During this time I witnessed friends’ relationships breaking down and I realised that in most cases they had got stuck in a state of righteous judgment about each other. They had expectations of each other, and when those expectations weren’t met, they ended the relationship.

So I considered what the basic steps were that made a relationship work over time. And thus The Perfect Relationship was born.

This straightforward and practical ebook gives you:

  • A simple technique to strengthen your connection with your partner – and an explanation of why this is important.
  • The knowledge to identify which parts of yourself are involved in your relationship and which parts are being left out – and how to develop more choice about that.
  • An explanation of the unconscious blueprints all relationships are based on, and how to navigate them so you don’t have to replay old patterns.
  • The secrets to communication, so you can solve any communication problem.
  • The reason you are attracted to particular people, and how to use this knowledge for your personal growth and for the enrichment of your relationship.

You’ll feel optimistic about relationships as you realise that every relationship is a perfect vehicle for the growth and healing of the individuals in it. And that most relationships can be far richer and more exciting than they are.

This book provides you with a roadmap, with the knowledge and information you need, for creating a relationship full of love, joy, passion, wonder, respect, healing and transformation.

Feedback From Readers

“This book could really save your relationship… Great suggestions for improving intimacy and communication.” – Rebecca


“We want you to know how much we enjoyed your book, The Perfect Relationship.  My husband Peter and I are using it as a guide.” – Francesca


“I loved your book. It was very easy to read, and really brought my awareness to the ‘mother’ part of me even though I have no children!

Not surprisingly, the first step has been the hardest. How can something so simple as spending time in your partner’s energy feel so alien?

It’s been great working through the book with my fiancé, I appreciate him and our relationship a lot more when looking at it from a different perspective.” – Narrah


“This was really enlightening. … it provides eye-opening info and easy to understand cures for stalled relationships. An absolutely stellar read…” – Amazon review


“Loved your book on Perfect Relationship steps” – Sasha Lessin, PhD


“I know your work will make a huge difference to the lives of many people.” – Mrs A Salis


“A little book that simplifies a very complicated issue into a revelation of understanding.” – Lynn Danaher


“My partner and I find The Perfect Relationship very clear and easy to understand and will be sharing it with our five children and friends.” – DJ



Professional Endorsements

The Perfect Relationship is the perfect book for anyone interested in relationship. Short and succinct, it gives an excellent overview of the steps that make relationship work. It has been very well received by our clients and is now recommended reading for our trainees.” – Paul and Robin Gale-Baker, Voice Dialogue Australia


“It captures in a simple way the spirit of Voice Dialogue and provides extremely useful advice for people living a long term relationship. If we, readers, started to implement at least half of the ten rules, I am sure the world would change…” – Pierre Cauvin, Co-creator of CCTI®, a Jungian Typology


“A wonderfully simple, clear and practical book on relationship that will be of great help to anyone who reads it. It puts into perspective what a good relationship is about and shows the difference between living with another person and seriously partnering with another person.

Astra Niedra has an ability to work with very profound ideas and translate them into language that makes them available to people with little psychological experience.” – Dr Hal Stone and Dr Sidra Stone


“… filled with powerful, yet easy to apply, methods that can really improve any type of relationship. I recommend this book wholeheartedly and encourage you to apply what Astra Niedra has revealed.” – Michael Domeyko Rowland


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