The Perfect Relationship

“A wonderfully simple, clear and practical book on relationship that will be of great help to anyone who reads it. It puts into perspective what a good relationship is about and shows the difference between living with another person and seriously partnering with another person. Astra Niedra has an ability to work with very profound ideas and translate them into language that makes them available to people with little psychological experience.”Dr Hal Stone and Dr Sidra Stone


How to Have a Lasting Conscious Relationship

Learn what the 10 fundamental steps are for a relationship that itself becomes a healer and teacher for your growth to wholeness.

Endorsed by relationship therapists and personal growth teachers worldwide, The Perfect Relationship is a concise guide you can read in an hour but whose insights can transform your entire life.

The Perfect Relationship explains:

  • How to build the foundation of your relationship – your connection with your partner.
  • The importance of recognising when you over-identify with particular parts of your personality, such as the pleaser, controlling parent, needy child, responsible self, perfectionist and rebellious child, which results in common relationship problems like diminished desire, increased judgment, communication and intimacy difficulties, and attractions to others.
  • The unconscious ‘bonding patterns’ all couples fall into, which lead to automatic reactions instead of genuine communication.

The Perfect Relationship shows you how to navigate the bonding patterns in your relationship so you can deal with any relationship issue, and how to embrace your unique personality and your partner’s, while learning from one another to help you grow.

The 10 steps can transform your entire life if you have the desire to more fully understand yourself, your partner, and how your relationship can be your greatest personal growth teacher.

“Simple and insightful… empowering advice”WellBeing Magazine

Praise for The Perfect Relationship from readers

“This book could really save your relationship… Great suggestions for improving intimacy and communication.” – Rebecca


“We want you to know how much we enjoyed your book, The Perfect Relationship.  My husband Peter and I are using it as a guide.” – Francesca


“I loved your book. It was very easy to read, and really brought my awareness to the ‘mother’ part of me even though I have no children!

Not surprisingly, the first step has been the hardest. How can something so simple as spending time in your partner’s energy feel so alien?

It’s been great working through the book with my fiancé, I appreciate him and our relationship a lot more when looking at it from a different perspective.” – Narrah


“This was really enlightening. … it provides eye-opening info and easy to understand cures for stalled relationships. An absolutely stellar read…” – Amazon review


“Loved your book on The Perfect Relationship steps” – Sasha Lessin, PhD


“I know your work will make a huge difference to the lives of many people.” – Mrs A Salis


“A little book that simplifies a very complicated issue into a revelation of understanding.” – Lynn Danaher


“My partner and I find The Perfect Relationship very clear and easy to understand and will be sharing it with our five children and friends.” – DJ



Professional Endorsements for The Perfect Relationship

The Perfect Relationship is the perfect book for anyone interested in relationship. Short and succinct, it gives an excellent overview of the steps that make relationship work. It has been very well received by our clients and is now recommended reading for our trainees.” – Paul and Robin Gale-Baker, Voice Dialogue Australia


“It captures in a simple way the spirit of Voice Dialogue and provides extremely useful advice for people living a long term relationship. If we, readers, started to implement at least half of the ten rules, I am sure the world would change…” – Pierre Cauvin, Co-creator of CCTI®, a Jungian Typology


“A wonderfully simple, clear and practical book on relationship that will be of great help to anyone who reads it. It puts into perspective what a good relationship is about and shows the difference between living with another person and seriously partnering with another person.

Astra Niedra has an ability to work with very profound ideas and translate them into language that makes them available to people with little psychological experience.” – Dr Hal Stone and Dr Sidra Stone


“… filled with powerful, yet easy to apply, methods that can really improve any type of relationship. I recommend this book wholeheartedly and encourage you to apply what Astra Niedra has revealed.” – Michael Domeyko Rowland

“Terrific!”Family Circle Magazine

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