What is Voice Dialogue?
Voice Dialogue is the method developed by notable husband and wife psychologists, teachers and authors Drs Hal and Sidra Stone that enables you to become aware of and to embrace the various parts of your psyche – your selves.
The term Voice Dialogue is also used to refer to the theory that attends the Voice Dialogue process: The Psychology of Selves, also known as The Psychology of the Aware Ego.
You can read Sidra Stone’s article on the origins of Voice Dialogue here.
What Makes Voice Dialogue Unique?
Other psychotherapeutic systems work with selves, such as Gestalt and Internal Family Systems therapy; and some personal growth teachers deal with particular selves, such as the Inner Critic and Inner Child. But only Voice Dialogue accepts the selves as real and doesn’t try to change any self or regard any one self as more worthy or valid than any other.
Instead, when you do Voice Dialogue you listen to and honour every self for who and what it is. You begin a process where you unhook from the selves that you have been identified with and learn to sit between opposite selves and to accept both. This process is called the Aware Ego Process.
What Will Voice Dialogue Do For You?
- When you become aware of and listen to the different parts of you, and you learn about their concerns and how they influence you, you gain a deeper insight into your behaviour, feelings and life choices.
- You start to realise which selves are running your life – including your relationships, career choices and goals in general – and which selves do not get much say.
- As your awareness of the various selves within you grows, you develop the ability to make increasingly conscious choices, rather than acting – or reacting – from habit.
- This process of growing awareness and of embracing often very opposite selves within your own psyche develops a more centred and inclusive sense of who you are.
- You become more aware of all the aspects of your humanity, be they spiritual, instinctual, materially-focused, service-oriented, emotional, rational, parental, or childlike.
- Your relationships transform as you realise that your judgements about others hold important lessons about yourself, and that your selves bond with the selves in other people in predictable patterns.
- You learn to use the energies the selves hold, such as warm, personal energy and cool, impersonal energy, and you can more easily set healthy boundaries and manage how you connect with others.
Which Self Are You?
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